I asked you to come at me with the sex and relationship questions that youwanted answers to, and boy did you ever “rise” to the occasion! While lots of the questions you left on my Formspring got deleted because they weren’t exactly what I was looking for (yes, I am flattered that everyone wants to knowif my boobs are real and if I would blow them, but this isn’t about ME, it’s about you!), a handful of you came through with really good questions! The first to get featured asked this: ”Most men wish their penises were bigger/longer. Do women like them bigger, or are some too big?”

So what do I think: Are bigger penises better?
Boys and men of all ages are going to shocked by this one: NO! Contraryto popular belief, penises can in fact be TOO BIG. The average depthof the vagina rarely expands past 8 inches when fully aroused, with the “pleasure censors” being between 3 and 4 inches inside the vagina.This means two things, 1) as long as you are 4 inches when you are hard, you will be able to get the job done, and 2) if you are bigger than8 inches, you can hit the cervix and cause cramping. You also won’t be able to fit your whole penis inside, making things a bit awkward. 
And trustme, as someone who has been with a range or sizes, too big can be a bummer. Feeling like a cock might poke through your stomach when yourguy thrusts isn’t all that thrilling. As far as thickness goes, men can also be too thick and cause the vagina to tear; however, the vagina can become expanded if you engage in regular intercourse with the same partner. All-in-all, I would say women prefer thickness to length. So men, the nexttime you are in the locker rooms, proudly spread the word that you knowwhat really counts when it comes to a dick because you heard it directlyfrom one hot sex-expert chick.
xoxo Alexis